Explanation of the seven attitudes that seem to make people successful in dating and relationships.
Everywhere I go I hear all kinds of bad date stories. I talk to people
who are discouraged, frustrated, and depressed about the dating
process and the prospect of ever finding their perfect partner. I
started to study the difference between people who didn’t find dating
horrible and were ultimately successful in finding a partner, and people
who were discouraged, frustrated and unsuccessful in the dating
process.
I discovered that there were clearly 7 or More Attitudes of Highly Successful Daters.
Attitude #1 = Open-Mindedness
Most of us have things that we think we’re looking for in a mate.
Your list probably includes characteristics, personality traits, physical attributes and shared interests that you feel are very important. Wouldn’t it be lovely if finding a partner was as simple as walking up and down the aisles of an electrical store and pulling your choice off the shelf!
Your list probably includes characteristics, personality traits, physical attributes and shared interests that you feel are very important. Wouldn’t it be lovely if finding a partner was as simple as walking up and down the aisles of an electrical store and pulling your choice off the shelf!
Finding a partner is NOT the same as
shopping!! The most successful daters are those who are willing to
remain open-minded to meeting a variety of people, even if those people
don’t necessarily meet the criteria they think they’re looking for. They understand that they NEED
to be open-minded because no matter how much we work on our lists of
what we think we want in a partner these lists come from the conscious
mind and we can’t possibly predict who we’re going to fall in love with,
because the "chemistry” everyone is looking for comes from the subconscious mind.
Many people say and believe that you need to be crystal clear on what
you want, and you need to hold a very clear and specific image in your
mind. I agree, but what you need to be totally clear on is not FORM,
but SUBSTANCE. What someone looks like, how tall they are, what color
hair and eyes they have, what type of physique they have is really all form. Substance is
things like values, morals, and character. These are the things that
we should be crystal clear on and hold in our image of our wonderful
relationship.
I'll be writing more about The 7 Attitudes over the next articles but if you want to find out stay close to my blog, comment and share it.
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