I gets this question a lot from ladies (but little from guys!) If your boy/girlfriend is ignoring you on social media, it could mean a thousand different things.
He/she might be busy with work or studying. He/she may be feeling feeling sick or tired and not in the mood to chat. Perhaps his/her attention is focused on something else; following sports, playing games 🎮 or messaging other male/female friends.
The worst case scenario is that he/she’s losing interest in you or that he/she’s cheating, but it’s not good to jump to conclusions. The best thing to do, in most cases, is not much at all. You should definitely not send him/her one hundred messages upset and/or angry messages. You should not start complaining to all your friends on social media that your boy/girlfriend is ignoring you. You’ll probably just end up annoying him/her and embarrassing yourself.
If he/she doesn’t reply back by the end of the day, you could, by all means, send him/her another message asking if everything’s alright. you haven’t heard from him/her today. Alternately, you can send him/her a very unexpected message (funny, sexy, or shocking), and see if that grabs his/her attention.
If he/she ignores that as well, and continues to ignore you, then you definitely have a problem! Meet him/her in person instead of over social media. It’s much easier to gauge someone’s feelings when you can see their face and their body language. He/she also can’t ignore you when you’re sitting right in front of him/her! It’s often said (although there are always exceptions to the rule) that for ladies, communication is about love and sharing and is an end in itself, but for guys, communication should have a clear purpose and is a means to an end.
So, if your boy/girlfriend doesn’t feel that he/she has a good reason to talk to you, he/she might be lazy in replying back, even if in love with you. Leave him/her however, if he/she seems to be never interested in what you say, or not there for you when you really need him/her. He/she is not the one for you, move on!
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